Thursday, 28 February 2013


-Make her feel secure, don't threaten her with divorce.
-Don't compare her to other women, especially physically. And don't praise other women in front of her. Tell her she is beautiful.
- Advise in private, at the best time, in the best way and atmosphere. Don't shout at her in front of others.
- Be generous with her. Give her gifts and surprise her at the most random time.
- Don't be rigid or harsh-hearted. If there is nothing wrong with something, allow her to do it.
- Be a good listener. Women love when you listen to their rants.
- Expect, accept, and overlook her shortcomings. She isn't perfect. If you don't like something in her, you will like other things. Remember you are not always right or perfect yourself.
- Speak of the topic of her interest. Don't just blabber on about what you like.
- Kiss your wife, foreplay, don't jump on her like a bull.
- Leave the past for Allah, don't dwell on, dig into, or bring it up.
- Help at home, with housework.
- Don't act as if you are doing her a favor by working or providing, Allah is the Provider, the husband is the carrier of the sustenance to the family.
- When you eat, put a morsel from your plate in her mouth.
- Write love notes or poems and place them in the book she's been reading.
- Ask her if she would like to invite her female friends over for ladies only get together and arrange for the dinner.
- Be the shoulder she can lean on to cry when she feels depressed.
- Remember that women experience a lot of hormone imbalance because of PMS, menses and pregnancy..and this can have an effect on their mood. They can become irritable and angry for little things. At this time, you have to understand her and don't irritate her more. Pamper her, kiss her, and be gentle with her. Remember it's their nature and they have been created in this way.